Celibacy time
Or the importance of finding yourself before forming a couple.
Is the time of celibacy useful for one's growth ? Tall women are affected by celibacy even more than other women.
Who will live, who will suffer? We don't grow up without our personal story, a past, traumas to resolve, aspirations and dreams. Getting into a relationship is sacrificial! You have to make sure you do it at the right time in your life otherwise you risk feeling resentful towards your partner, your life or even worse your children.
It is our responsibility to find meaning in our lives before having to make compromises. Nobody will be able to do it for us.
As a woman, life as a couple and/or becoming a mother is a real life sacrifice.
Indeed, the mental burden hangs over our heads like a sword of Damocles.
The ideal is therefore to have answered the existential questions about the meaning of our lives before, and to have begun to put in place the ecosystem allowing us to preserve our lives as women, our personal development as well as the practice of our passions.
We can only give to others when we ourselves have a cup full of happiness, joy, positivity and love.
The worst thing would be to stop everything, get frustrated or fall into endless depression.
Is celibacy therefore a time to lament ? The answer is “absolutely not”, on the contrary, your schedule is very busy. You must prepare today the woman you will be tomorrow.